Hello beautiful human being, welcome here! My name is Mieke (pronounced as: “Mee – kuh”) and I love helping you create your best life. Especially when you are plagued by the past or by negative beliefs.
You might recognize this: You’ve already tried so much, it makes you feel hopeless. In fact, it seems that the harder you try, the harder it gets. Talking doesn’t help anymore. It seems impossible to leave those old patterns or that trauma behind. And this causes a lot of stress, anger, and sadness.
And then that powerless feeling because you just can’t seem to manage or steer your life in the direction you’d like to go… “You just have to do…” people tell you, followed by well-intentioned advice. Or: “let it go, it’s been so long”. You get that and you want nothing more than that. And yet it doesn’t work.
Willpower and perseverance. These are typical words that we connect to changing behavior. In the Netherlands we are especially proud of it, hard work will get you there.
But still, you’re getting nowhere…
If this is something you recognize, then you are here for a reason.
And then it might be good to know that it’s not at all strange that life remains a struggle. All those patterns and painful experiences are not stored in the conscious part of your brain. They are stored in our subconscious mind. And that part of your mind doesn’t listen to willpower or perseverance. It also doesn’t listen to talking.
Our subconscious works entirely differently from our rational conscious mind. By nature, it does not like change and is only concerned for your safety. That often means ‘remain as it’, because that is familiar. Even if that is not healthy for you. If you want to change something and your subconscious doesn’t think it’s safe, he’s going to sabotage you.
You can compare that internal battle between your conscious rational mind and your subconscious mind to an ant on the back of an elephant. How much chance does the ant have of forcing the elephant to another side? The ant just isn’t strong enough. In relation to the subconscious, the conscious has no power whatsoever (The ratio being about 95% to 5%. You can read more about that here.) The conscious can make plans to change and improve your life, but without the backup of the subconscious, you won’t get far. That is why we so often remain in that eternal inner dialogue of ‘yes, but…’ (I’ll start on Monday, when the holidays are here I’ll have the time, etc, etc) The conscious mind wants one thing, the subconscious refuses and the inner battle begins.
What does help is to start working with your subconscious mind. To teach your subconscious that you are safe and that you want something different because it’s healthy for you.
And that’s where I can help you.
I’m not the coach you go to only talk to: Each session we will work with the subconscious part of you too.
You’ve got extraordinary power within
Your subconscious mind works completely differently than your conscious mind. It has its own rules, its own language, and its own way of learning new things. It’s not rational, it doesn’t work with reason or logic. But when the communication is there, the power of change suddenly is enormous. Imagine that you can use that 95% of your subconscious to make the changes you want? When you use the power of your subconscious mind to process traumas, leave old patterns behind and learn new healthy beliefs, life can really change!
You too have that extraordinary power, it is already in you. It’s time we start using it.
Everyone is born perfect and complete. Perfect, unique, special. And for a reason.
But I also know that we unlearn this through our negative experiences and through the beliefs we are taught from a very early age.
My motto is: You’re born magnificent.
You are important on this earth. You are here for a reason and that is certainly not to suffer. You came here to create instead of following and to enjoy this life instead of constantly being fearful or stressed.
You are here to be YOU.
Do you actually know this deep down inside, but you just can’t feel or believe it? Then I am happy to help you.
The good news is that you can absolutely change your life, the better news is that this doesn’t have to be a struggle and doesn’t have to be hard work. The moment you involve the extraordinary power of your subconscious mind in the process, you can leave your old patterns, traumas, and stress behind. You can learn new positive beliefs, backed up by your subconscious mind and you can start creating your most beautiful life.
Sessions in mother nature
Most of my coaching sessions take place in the beautiful forests and fens of Oisterwijk. This is not without a reason. These ancient forests exude a sense of peace and calmness, which invite you to look at what you want in life. It is also known to be a power vortex, the energy in this environment is particularly soothing. Nature accepts everyone and doesn’t judge.
The combination of coaching in nature and using the power of your subconscious mind makes my sessions particularly powerful. And at the same time have a wonderfully soothing effect. This allows you to make big steps in a short time and really change your life in a very nice and pleasant way.
What do you really want in life?
Let go of your old patterns, trauma, and stress and you become free to create your life.